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When we change the way we look at things, the things we look at change - Wayne Dwyer.

During the past two weeks, South Africa experienced several incidents that touched many people emotionally: the murder of the AWB leader, Eugene Terreblanche; comments made by Julius Malema; the municipal strike and accompanying violence; winning matches by some sport teams or individuals and losing by others. The list can go on.

What I want you to realize is that while some were sad about certain events, others were glad about the same event. While some got excited, others were subdued or angered by the same incident. The way we look at things is determined by our past experiences, skills, and knowledge which all helps to form our beliefs and values.

Only you can change the way you look at things. When you step back and look at the situation from another angle, the chances are that you will experience different emotions. Rather than anger you might feel sorry for a person. When we change the way we look at things, the things we look at change.

The moment you feel emotional tension building up because of a particular person or event, interrupt yourself. Step back and look at it from another angle. The moment you do that, you will have a positive effect on your own life. I know you can do it, but will you?

Make it a great week,

Christo Spies

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